Welcome to my first installment of Wednesday Word, a weekly linkup for everyone, not just health and fitness bloggers.
Each Wednesday you will have a single word prompt to write about. Let your imagination run free and share with your readers your interpretation of that word, or simply use it as inspiration for your post.
Today’s word is solitude…… If you decide to linkup, please remember to follow my six simple rules.
Solitude – the state or situation of being alone.
“She savored her few hours of freedom and solitude.”
I grew up on a farm with pastures, corn fields, and cows all around – far from the hustle and bustle of even the nearest small town. If you craned your neck just so, you could see my aunt and uncle’s house about a quarter of a mile away.
I yearned for friends next door and sidewalks for roller skating; instead, I learned to play by myself or bury my head in a book and live vicariously through the lives of Laura Ingles and Nancy Drew. Other than a period of time when I was four and had an entire family of pretend ghosts that lived in my room, I was a very normal kid that eventually learned to embrace the peace and quiet of country life.
I learned to make a game out of lying on my back and picking out animal shapes in the fluffy white clouds as they moved across the brilliant blue sky. I learned to appreciate and identify the songs of different birds singing in our quiet back yard. I learned that there is no better smell than that of hay curing, and no better feeling than that of a baby calf nuzzling for affection.
I learned that solitude is a very good thing.
My childhood of solitude wasn’t lonely, but it was a lesson in how to deal with being alone.
Today, I enjoy my time alone. Yes, I’m a very social person, but I don’t mind being by myself at all. I prefer to run with friends, but when I can’t, I don’t need music to keep me going – I have birds singing and squirrels chattering to keep me company.
I savor the changing seasons as I run down the W&OD Trail. I anxiously anticipate every tiny new bud in March, and marvel at the explosion of leaf colors in October. I notice the changes in water levels in the creek as it rises with the spring rains, and then exposes its rocks during the drought-like conditions of August.
I notice my breathing quicken as I pick up the pace from my slower warm-up to that of my tempo run, and I can hear the sound my footsteps make against the quiet morning backdrop. These are things that I miss when I’m engaged in conversation while running with friends.
So which do I prefer – running alone or running with friends? Both! And I can thank my childhood for teaching me to enjoy being alone, and learning to appreciate nature’s gift of solitude.
What is your solitude?
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As a straight-up, lifetime suburban girl, your country upbringing sounds unbelievably exotic to me! 🙂
I was a huge reader as a kid, mostly because I was super shy. Little House on the Prairie was a good friend. I think, like you, that learning to appreciate quiet is the best gift you can give yourself.
Anne recently posted…And Work Wins (This Time)
Thanks for linking up today, Anne! I feel like I should make you a certificate for being my first ever linker-upperer. 🙂
A whole family of ghosts? Well now!
I used to intentionally spend a lot of time alone in my room if we weren’t out playing with friends. I used to read a LOT and I also loved Nancy Drew and the Hardy Boys. I’m obsessed with music (if you couldn’t tell by now) and I used to record Casey Kasem doing the Top 40 on the weekends and then play back the tapes to try to learn lyrics to songs (before the days when you could Google any song you want).
Courtney @ Don’t Blink. Just Run. recently posted…Face The Music Friday #69
Yes, a whole family of very friendly ghosts! My dad played along and talked to them, but I think my mom considered taking me to see a doctor.
You’re right – playing songs over and over while stopping the cassette player to write down the lyrics was the only way we learn them. I remember that one of the few albums I owned had the lyrics written on the inside cover, and I loved that!
I was an only child, so I think my childhood experiences were similar. (I lived in Old Town, but it was a much quieter place than it is now) I like my alone time, but I also like being with people. I like to run with others for long runs, but like my solo runs too. P.S. Love this idea for a link-up!
Coco (@Got2Run4Me) recently posted…Curried Chickpea Stew
Yes, I’m sure only children learn how to embrace solitude as well. I had a brother that was four years older, but the age difference and being of opposite sexes, we didn’t do much together except race (he always won), and occasionally play football. He taught me how to throw a mean spiral, though!
Hope you’ll join the linkup sometime!
I love solitude! I think it has taken me until the past few years to recognize that I am somewhat of an introvert and that I need that quiet solitude every day in order to feel calm. I find it on solo runs or during the day when my kids are at school and I get a break from work. But I definitely cherish it!
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I feel like I’m an introvert trapped in an extrovert’s body. As much as I love planning big group events, I enjoy one-on-one time with my friends the best.
This is a great idea! And the reason I run is for solitude. I spend my entire day with people–my family, my patients, my coworkers…and when I run, it’s just me and the road.
Wendy@Taking the Long Way Home recently posted…No time to train?
Thank you for linking up to my very first Wednesday Word! I love that – “and when I run, it’s just me and the road.”
What a great idea for a link up! I’ve written down the next few weeks and I ope to jump in at some point. Fun!
Deborah @ Confessions of a Mother Runner recently posted…Spring Cleaning With PhenOh 7.4
Thank, Deborah! I hope you’ll join in soon.
Love this idea and I’m going to try to incorporate it on my wednesday posts (which also happens to be a linkup 🙂 )
I like running with friends on my long runs and by myself on more intense workouts. I like the camaraderie of finishing up runs and getting together over stretching or coffee.
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Thank you, and I do hope you’ll join the Wednesday Word linkup. I’ll pop over and check out your linkup, too.
I do enjoy the company of my friends on my longer runs. We also do our first mile warm-up together, then run our own tempo pace, and then pull back together to do our cool-down mile together.
oooh a new linkup! i love some solitude and really enjoy quiet time by myself so i agree with your post. learning to love your own company is a blessing, i think.
Courtney @ Eat Pray Run DC recently posted…Goals for the Cherry Blossom Ten Miler
I’d been wanting to host a linkup for a long time, and then your Blogger Tip Tuesday about hosting a linkup last summer made me a little more serious about it. One day while on a run the idea just popped into my head, but it’s taken me until now to actually get it going. I’d love to have you join when one of the words speaks to you!
Aww little Deb and her ghost family – too cute 🙂 I enjoy my solitude and typically run alone (except with my friend Rachel). I like to use that time to think, contemplate about things, and enjoy my surroundings.
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That’s great! I’m learning today that a lot of people like to run alone. I would have guessed otherwise.
Usually when I run alone ideas pop into my head, but I forget half of them by the time I get home. I came up with my linkup idea while on a run, and actually remembered it!
Great post! Congratulations on your first Wednesday Word!
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Thanks, Jenn, and thanks for linking up!
I’m planning to participate next week – what a fun link-up!!!
When I was a new mom I didn’t realize the value of solitude but now I relish it!
I look forward to having you join in on the fun! And yes, isn’t it amazing how becoming a mom makes you relish your time alone so much more.
Solitude, I adore it, I crave it. sometimes it feels like I never get enough. I grew up in a ranch in Montana and am lucky enough to be raising my kids there now. Although I have learned once I get too much of it I start to talk to myself a lot.
I was in 6th grade before I realised my friends all saw each other during the summer. Not me. We had work to do. I wouldn’t trade it for the world. I used to imagine there were people that lived in the rocks in the hills, I still think about those people sometimes.
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Oh wow – how cool that you are raising your kids where you grew up. I have never been to Montana, and it’s on my list of states to visit. I bet it’s absolutely gorgeous there!
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